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Anal Fixation

04 Mar

I ADMIT IT: I AM OBSESSED WITH ASS.

I honestly don’t know what it is about THE ASS that drives me crazy. I long to admire it, rub it, spank it, and love it long time!

To be ‘SMOTHERED IN ASS‘.    Is there be a better way to die?
I don’t think so!

Why do I crave it? Because it’s taboo?… Because I never get to talk about it?… Because I never get it?…
Because I’m a kinky pervert with an obsession? (YES to all of those)

Since my wife wants nothing to do with anal play (mostly due to fear of pain from the one clumsy time I we tried it), I’m stuck with Ass Fantasies, which may be part of the obsession – My fantasies are awesome!

Hmm… perhaps I’ll have to write an ass story soon…

Do YOU have an Ass Fetish?  Secretly think about having your bottom used in nasty kinky ways? 
Comment and let us know!

In the interest of exploring my kinky self, I’ve delved into some good ass stuff.  Here are my top recommendations:

Check out what’s in my Toy Box for all my “Bottom Drawer” recommendations!

 
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Black Tie Affair

28 Feb

Hey Pack, today I’ve got my vote for best portable bondage furniture.

The BLACK LABEL LIBERATOR is simply the Best of the Best.

Its not exactly CHEAP, but it is 100% top quality and incredibly useful.   This is a must for your Toy Box!

I own the WEDGE/RAMP COMBO, which I find to provide the most bang for the buck. Its super versatile, super soft, and super sexy!

While you are at the Liberator Store, check out all the high quality video tutorials!  They have lots of kinky ideas!  Here’s one from the TOY TIME series on the Black Label Hipster! ENJOY!


 
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The Story of ju

28 Feb

juelle is a slave friend of mine from SecondLife.

She’s super creative & super submissive.

 

She writes about all things subbie at her blog  The Story of ju.        

Her short story about rope bondage will make you crave that next suspension scene.

Two of my favorite things:  Slaves & Rope!

Check it out!!

 

 
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The Simplicity of Rope

28 Feb

I LOVE ROPE!

I love the smell…

I love the look…

I love the feel…

 

Most of all, I love the simplicity.

Sure, I have some awesome hand-made, hard leather cuffs (they smell super delicious) and I have a set of super-easy-to-use nylon Velcro restraints (they look super sexy in red) and I even have a Black Label Liberator (it is super soft yet super firm).  I have lots of specialty items in my Toy Box, yet none are as versatile as my rope kit.

When it comes to bondage: (as the Beatles might say) All you need is rope, rope, rope is all you need.

Wondering what’s in my rope kit?  Looking for a good rope store?  Want to learn more about rope bondage?

Check out the new Kinky Dom Rope Section!

 

 

 
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R.A.C.K.

26 Feb

No, I’m not referring to the glorious nipple-capped mountains of flesh…

RACK means Risk-Aware Consensual Kink

DEFINITION (Wikipedia):

“A philosophical view that is generally permissive of certain risky sexual behaviors, as long as the participants are fully aware of the risks.”

“RACK’s tenets are best described by a deconstruction of the acronym:

  • Risk-aware: Both or all partners are well-informed of the risks involved in the proposed activity.
  • Consensual: In light of those risks, both or all partners have, of sound mind, offered preliminary consent to engage in said activity.
  • Kink: Said activity can be classified as alternative sex.“

HISTORY (Wikipedia):

“RACK was coined in reaction to dissatisfaction within the BDSM community regarding SSC [safe-sane-consensual]…. Over time, as the phrase started spreading through the larger community, [it] appeared on bumper stickers and T-Shirts”

MORE INFO:

SSC AND RACK

 
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Risk & the Youthful Spirit

26 Feb

Teens. My kids have been taken over by aliens. I’m sure of it today more than ever.  Being a Dad of Teens is not a job I currently cherish (more like stuck in)…  I’m working overtime to get a promotion: Dad of Mature-Successful-Well-Adjusted-Adults-Not-Living-at-Home-.  There is a reason they say parenthood is “enough to drive you to drink” -  I prefer Crown Royal (I buy it by the case – I’m not kidding).

It’s been a rough year with my 17 yr old son.  I believe the alien inhabiting his brain is from the planet Stupid.  So I was astounded when I read the results of a 2006 Cornell University Study, which a Professor summed up by stating:

Teens “are more likely to ponder the risks, take longer (about 170 milliseconds more) weighing the pros and cons of engaging in high-risk behavior than adults — and actually overestimate the risks. It’s just that they often decide the benefits — the immediate gratification or peer acceptance — outweigh the risks.”

Wow.  When I found my son and his girlfriend asleep on the couch in the basement this morning, condom on the floor, my first thought was NOT “He must have thought about the risks here long and hard”.  Thankfully the girl was over the age of consent, but I’m sure he didn’t think about that in advance either.

So, as I sit here drinking my Dunkin’ Donuts coffee and contemplating why I haven’t gotten that much-deserved Dad promotion yet (as well as seriously thinking about quitting my job by strangling him), lo and behold, I feel a kinky moment coming on  (I know that sounds like all kinds of ‘wrong’… but lets continue anyway).

Youthful Spirit (that desire to explore life in all its unrestricted glory) condones breaking the rules because the risks make life way more exciting.  Don’t you wish you could recapture some of that essence in a bottle and drink it just before RACK playtime?  HELL YES! The huge difference between teens and adulthood, but more specifically the Kinky Community, is that we carefully craft rules to allow us to engage in ‘risky’ behavior.  According to the Cornell study, adults inherently know the consequences and therefore don’t consciously ‘think’ about the risks before taking action as teens do.  So, in order to grant ourselves freedom from that subconscious rulebook, good players will negotiate everything to ensure that risky behavior can be enjoyed safely, sanely, and consensually (SSC).

Risk is fun! (I even enjoy the board game) I just wish my son would start negotiating more SSC into his fun.  He’d be grounded a lot less often and I’d get that promotion. WIN/WIN! I’d also probably drink a lot less Crown…  maybe not.

 
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The Pack is born.

24 Feb

Greetings!  Welcome to The Pack.

My name is Cal.  You can read more about my twisted brain in ABOUT CAL.

I am here to let my imagination run wild and I hope that you will strip down and join our pack!  We will discuss  kinky sex with a focus on BDSM.  If these subjects make you uncomfortable, then I encourage you to run with us for a while with an open mind and then see if you aren’t a little turned on.  However, if you already know that you will be offended, please do not attack the site or its readers in the forums or comments; do the honorable thing and leave the pack quietly.

I only make one promise: To be truthful in every expression.

My goals are: to learn as much as I can about my kinky self;  to explore all of my limits to their fullest; to find a healthy balance between my kinks and my everyday life; to make as many kinky friends as I can along the way, and to help you do the same.

Cheers!

~Cal.

 
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